G-Spot Advice

Dear Darla,

I have a question – I am not sure of the exact location (or if there is an exact location) for the Gspot – it seems mysterious to me. I have not read extensively about it, but what i have read seems like too much fiction and not enough fact.  Does the Gspot really exist? If so, HOW DO I FIND IT?!?!!?

 Thanks in Advance,

Vinicius Vieira


 

Dear Vinicius,

That is a great question, and I can start by saying that YES, THE G-SPOT DOES EXIST!!!

The mysterious g-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is located along the front vaginal wall by the pelvic bone behind the clit, approximately 2-3 inches deep. This is also where you will find the urethral sponge, which encompasses sensitive nerve endings and is tied to female ejaculation. Its existence and function have been a hot topic for debate, and I’ve found that the majority of people loudly debating the subject were men. No offense to them, but I’m sure I know my vagina better than they do, and guess what.. It’s real!! Don’t take my word for it- perhaps you can find one for yourself.

The best way to find it is by slowly and sensually exploring your lover’s body until you find that little magically moist walnut of joy. It’s important to go slowly in the beginning. This will help direct focus on the physical touches and feelings of pleasure, while remaining relaxed. Any kind of anxiety that could cause one to hold back will disrupt the flow and hinder reaching the highest heights of ecstasy. Foreplay is crucial for most women in order to get really hot and bothered. Once aroused, insert your index and middle finger into your partner’s vagina and curl your fingers toward you in a come hither motion. If flying solo, curl your fingers inward and upward. If you like toys, these are spectacular for this (Njoy Fun WandJe Joue G-Ki, & Lelo Mona).

The g-spot starts out fairly flat, but with stimulation and arousal, it will begin to balloon outward. You can physically feel it getting larger. An orgasm from g-spot stimulation is totally different than any other. Clitoral orgasms feel like a higher frequency and tend to be intense and hard hitting all at once. The g-spot orgasm is much deeper and comes in rolling waves. I am always surprised by how many times I can climax, and with my good friend Grafenberg, each one is more intense than the one before. Most famously, the g-spot is your key to the epic and hotly sought after squirt!

Those who choose to explore the g-spot’s limitations have found that when it’s pet, you’ll feel like you may need to pee. This is the first deterrent to those who may experience stimulation there. This feeling can be a bit alarming at first, but you have to trust that your urethral sponge is doing its job and inflating to obstruct your urethral tube. Once you ride out this feeling, you will reach beautiful breathtaking bliss.

Stay tuned in for next time, when I elaborate more on the climactic finish! (Here’s Part II)

Love,

Darla

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Mermaids, Unicorns, & Porn Stars oh MY!

Mermaids, Unicorns, & Porn Stars oh MY!

The SHAG gang is hosting a night of Film Screening, Book Signing, and Q&A

Join us Friday April 11th from 7-9 pm for a night that is filled with mythological magical creatures and fierce feminists eroticizing their favorite glitter covered unicorns and mermaids!
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G-Spot Mouse by Andy Kurovets // Yanko Design

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“This mouse is called the “G-Spot” – I am not even effin with you. Where to find the mysterious spot of pleasure’s center? With which woman will it be found? Can it be found? These are all questions. Is this spot to be found within devices? Perhaps a mouse? And if so, what would happen if that spot were found?”
Read more at http://www.yankodesign.com/2010/02/11/you-mouse-around-here-often/#wIvYYflqSojq3gmW.99